So this month will be my 7 month of being married. Hubby and I were discussing it the other day and he felt it was going by so fast. I agreed and didn't agree. I felt after a year it wold feel like it went by fast...but right now I feel it is actually going along at a good pace. Of course if we were to accomplish all the things we want, it might seem like it was going faster. I think about how couples will marry and then quickly get pregnant and how for us it was just not the ideal move. There are so many changes he and I are still adjusting to. Even though we dated for 3 years, there are still times we learn something new about each other. I think having a child would force us to push our relationship into fast forward. Besides, I so enjoy sleeping late, going where I want, when I want. Not having to plan for anything but getting paid and paying the bills. I know a child would complicate all that. Don't get me wrong, we will eventually have children...just not now. This is our time and we want to enjoy it.